Temple United Vampyrian Unitarian Pagan (c) - Vampyr Spirituality

This Thing..If You Got A Minute..And You're Bored..

I was wondering if any of you have ever come across this problem..

It seems that when I am particularly hungry, like now..I wind up drawing people to me..pretty much unconciously..although sometimes it happens so fast..I become
"rapt" and don't want to part from them altogether when I make myself walk
away. This is sometimes a stranger, sometimes friend..almost anyone near lately..

The interest and attraction they seem to show is almost always sexual, although sometimes, it's just creepy because they won't let me alone. I refuse to toy with anyone when I do not have any interest in them. I don't want to give any wrong signals. I do not want another man than my husband.

Always looking for a girlfriend..and I love guys, they are my best pals..but I already made my commitment with him..and he rewards me so well that I'll never stray..without his express permission..

But he is totally understanding of my lifestyle, and I have had girlfriends while we were together. He had no interest in them thus far..and that has worked for us.

But I stray. Some of that information was, however, pertinent.

What is also pertinet..I, in no way, look provocative right now. My hair is still in growing out stage. I've gained a little bit of weight since I quit smoking..45lbs in fact, of which I recently lost 5lbs..so it won't stay..but I'm a little frumpy right now..

I've not been wearing makeup, haven't been sleeping at night..and pretty much live in my husband's clothes because it comforts me.

So where is this attraction coming from? That's the quandry.

Is this something I can get under control? It is attracting some unwanted attention..or it just is happening of it's own.?.and I am very unlucky.?..LOL

If you know anything about this..please, share with me..

If not, your ideas..thoughts..hypothesis is welcome for discussion.

Thank You..

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Permalink Reply by Founding Father J P ChrstVampyr on December 9, 2007 at 10:44pm: You cant blame yourself; I love Attention myself, lol. Its just the way of the vampiyre at times. We seem to hgave a way to draw people to us and I dont mind it myself as long as its not a big scary guy who wont take no for an answer.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Founding Father J P ChrstVampyr on December 10, 2007 at 9:04pm: We tend to draw others to us and being a Leo doesnt help, LOL. Leo Vamps are the most egotistical but I try to not let it get to me too much...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by garrison on December 16, 2007 at 8:28am: hmm i have a similar problem, im not sher if it helps but i think we attract people because a part of us wants some one ether to talk to, use, or be used. ect. ect but some part of us wants somthing from some one. like when im in a foul mood and having a day where i fill like strangling anyone who comes in contact with me, but at the same time i just want some one to actualy talk to me, i attract alot of people and a larg majority of them just want something from you, its like living a life holding a candle for every one so they can find there way and it goes out, but no one will hold a candle for you.

but ya ill stop rambling,
but i think every thing attracts attention when they need something even if they don't know it.

what ever it is you seek i hope you find it.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Empress of Moldovia on October 27, 2008 at 11:18pm: i was just wondering around in here and came across this, thought i would comment. i can see where u are on this, i am also married and me and hubs share clothes too. i don't wear make up except nail polish now, new thing, lol. anyhow, i have become more and more having sleepless nights as well. i would have to say it's all a part of u. don't let it get u down. go with the flow. be u, because i b me and if people don't like u for what u are on the inside, oh well. but by what i have gotten to know u now, i like u for u. i hope u like me for me. hope we can be good friends. hope this has helped u a bit. laterz. w.w.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by TempleUVUP Administrator on October 28, 2008 at 12:30pm: *blush* Thank you for the kind words, and I would like very much so to be friends. :D You have a rather charming personality yourself.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Asst.Spiritual Mother AhramDurga on November 1, 2008 at 9:26pm: Many blessing my Love, Again I miss you. :) And now I have the internet hook back on to my pc. YAAA!
Any way into trying to bring myself up to date. I thought I was the only one who was going throught this. I don't like to put myself out there as if I am all that... But it happen. Now do get me wrong. Getting ready to trun 44 next month. It does make me feel good LOL. When the charm is on, Its on LOL. How ever, there are time I do have my bonder's. And when I say no.. I mean just that.. I have a case now with a woman, Who has a lot to learn, If you know what I mean. She is a nice in her own way. There are time's When I am open and very sentive to everything, Reather I become a human crstal ( sorry for the spelling ) I have for some reson or another, drawn people unto to me, and yes there are times within those moments I find myself feeding from them or if I have the enery give to them. But when you find those time your sheild is up. Bonder must be respected no matter what. When I come out of a rite, I find this person wanting to be all over me, even before I can grond myself completly. I had to stop . Being the person I am, My other side can come out it my bonder are not respeted. However... I myself am drawn unto you.... Your aura about yourself, is beutiful and you are a good and loveing person. People like us have alot of passion within us and I believe people can sence that somehow. But I believe, people like us only give that passion to whom we will it to be..... And know this is well,, As you grow. Your powers within you are growing as well. Miss Hight Prietess :) So My Lady do not fret or frat....1. Your not along in this. Just learn to use it for the good or what ever you will it to be and 2. As long as you got the good's injoy :) LOL as long as it do not get out of hand.

KISSES and HUGS
I love you, Your Sister and admire
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Permalink Reply by Laura Hunt on July 30, 2009 at 4:59am: i'm no vampyre but i have been drawn to many of the faces in the pictures of the members that say they are vampyres here on the site i can't get over looking at them so maybe there is something to it; ▶ Reply to This